2010年5月6日星期四

家书:《我儿从军》之八

Don’t live by the rule of righteousness

  Being a human being, each has his own rights to survive. Do not try to show the right path, and admonishing anyone who doesn't live by that path. You may concern with others, but in a negative way, and in the end will only have their own righteousness to live with, and that's a horrible companion.

  Live your life by the rule of respect. Open your soul to them. Support them in humanity, and show them not cruelty nor disapproval nor coldness nor disappointment, but only love.

  And most of all, love yourself. While others may criticize you, learn not to be so hard on yourself, to think that you're ugly or dumb or unworthy of love … but to think instead that you are a wonderful human being, worthy of happiness and love … and learn to love yourself for who you are.

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